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Topic: More bad news
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Blondie Ramone Punk Posts: 75 Registered: Dec 2001
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posted 12-19-2002 02:47 PM
We got the results back from Steve's last scan yesterday and I'm afraid it wasn't what we wanted to hear. It sounds like he has 3-4 new spots on his liver, and 2 of the tumors in his brain are swollen with some bleeding around them with quite a bit of swelling in the nearby areas.His oncologist has put him back on the steroids that he hates and we're going in today at 4:30 for a consult with her as to what the next course of action will be. Possibly more radiation and most likely more chemo. Needless to say, we once again are devastated by this news. We want to thank everyone of our friends and everyone on this board who have given us so much support. He didn't go in to work last night, but that wasn't really an option for me, so I brought him to work with me. So we just kind of hung out all night together. It was good... The H.R. woman where he works did the coolest thing for him though. She looked back at his re-hire date and found out that it was exactly 6 months to the day that he started and called us and asked us to come in so he could punch in for 1/2 hour and get credit for working that day just in case he needs to go back on disability. It will insure his eligibility for it. So we went in and walked around and chatted with all his co-workers for half an hour and left. We've got enough crap to worry about right now without worrying about financial stuff, so it was especially nice of her to be looking out for his best interest. We'll keep you posted about any new developments. IP: Logged |
stu Punk Posts: 307 Registered: Oct 2000
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posted 12-19-2002 03:00 PM
I'm not sure what to say, but I hope you guys can keep it together. I've never met either of you, but Mouldy seems like a genuinely nice person. Hang in there and try and enjoy your family and friends over the holidays. Cancer sucks.IP: Logged |
knobgoblin Punk Posts: 649 Registered: Mar 2000
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posted 12-19-2002 03:00 PM
Wow, time for some good thoughts Moldy's way.....What a great H.R. person... IP: Logged |
Evil Angel Punk Posts: 1717 Registered: Jul 2002
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posted 12-19-2002 03:10 PM
I'm glad the HR person is looking out for you guys. I'm so sorry to hear the news. IP: Logged |
HooliganKat Punk Posts: 1193 Registered: Feb 2002
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posted 12-19-2002 03:23 PM
Oh, my heart is breaking yet again for the two of you.I had the great fortune of meeting both of you last Saturday, and now I can put faces to the prayers. Again, I wish any good karma, good luck or good will, that I have coming to go to you and Moldy. IP: Logged |
molly coddle Punk Posts: 2558 Registered: May 2001
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posted 12-19-2002 03:25 PM
as soon as you need us we are here.IP: Logged |
UnstuckGus Punk Posts: 268 Registered: Oct 2000
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posted 12-19-2002 03:25 PM
My continued good thoughts out to you and Moldy. I don't know what else to say except that I truly wish you guys the best. Keep fighting, we're all behind you guys.IP: Logged |
stinkbot Punk Posts: 1062 Registered: Jul 2002
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posted 12-19-2002 03:33 PM
i don't know what to say at times like this, just know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. you have the collective positive karma the entire community backing you up, but you knew that. much love.stinkin'hippybot IP: Logged |
Barabbas Punk Posts: 1888 Registered: Feb 2001
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posted 12-19-2002 03:36 PM
Sending good thoughts your way, both of you.IP: Logged |
Billy V. Gan Punk Posts: 805 Registered: Jul 2001
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posted 12-19-2002 03:37 PM
Like Mollie said, just let us know if you need anything. Sorry about the bad news.IP: Logged |
povertyrich Punk Posts: 1249 Registered: Apr 2002
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posted 12-19-2002 03:39 PM
Happy thoughts,Happy Holidays and a picture of a Robot Monster for you: And good Karma to that HR person. What an amazingly thoughtful thing to do! IP: Logged |
tape deck Punk Posts: 525 Registered: Mar 2001
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posted 12-19-2002 04:04 PM
Ya, fuck that "I'm gonna stay in your head instead of coming out and fighting like a real man" pansy ass cancer!IP: Logged |
steef Punk Posts: 3299 Registered: Jan 2002
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posted 12-19-2002 04:07 PM
I'm hopin you make it through it again, kiddo!IP: Logged |
autopsygrrrl Punk Posts: 1082 Registered: May 2001
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posted 12-19-2002 04:53 PM
Oh God. If you need anything, ANYTHING...seriously.IP: Logged |
monty carlos Punk Posts: 1155 Registered: May 2002
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posted 12-19-2002 04:59 PM
It sucks that the damn cancer just won't leave you two fun lovin' kids alone.I hope the new year treats you two better. IP: Logged |
Model50 Punk Posts: 1243 Registered: Mar 2001
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posted 12-19-2002 05:03 PM
When I heard this, it broke my heart. This is not fair. You guys are the sweetest people and you have our (James and mine)love and support. If you guys need anything, and I mean it, please let us know!!!!!!!! IP: Logged |
Chelsea40ozBondage Punk Posts: 2336 Registered: May 2000
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posted 12-19-2002 05:11 PM
 I am truly sorry to hear this. You guys are amazing, and might I add, tough as nails... Keep up the fight! We are all behind you. IP: Logged |
Patti Pagan Punk Posts: 1439 Registered: Jul 2000
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posted 12-19-2002 07:06 PM
OH NO!! I am so sad. El Vez needs to do a return engagement!! FIGHT, FIGHT, FIGHT...we are with you every step of the way! IP: Logged |
Uncle Mike Punk Posts: 405 Registered: Sep 2001
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posted 12-19-2002 07:53 PM
I'm sending positive cancer killing waves your way dude. IP: Logged |
Long Duck Dong Punk Posts: 135 Registered: Jun 2002
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posted 12-19-2002 07:58 PM
I don't know either of you, but I have dealt with this cancer crap before (not me, a loved one). Keep fighting the fight. You know you're not alone.IP: Logged |
trailerdiva Punk Posts: 620 Registered: Feb 2001
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posted 12-19-2002 09:17 PM
Our family is sad. We're pulling for you. IP: Logged |
Dyer Punk Posts: 733 Registered: Apr 2000
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posted 12-19-2002 09:53 PM
I'm passing on positive thoughts in your direction. Keep hoping for the best.IP: Logged |
2fisted Punk Posts: 1820 Registered: Mar 2000
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posted 12-19-2002 10:25 PM
Never Surrender! Keep on fighting Steve!IP: Logged |
Reno Punk Posts: 1470 Registered: Jun 2000
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posted 12-19-2002 11:23 PM
Be sure to ask if you need anything. Anything.IP: Logged |
Ollie Stench Admin Posts: 2394 Registered: Jan 2002
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posted 12-20-2002 12:55 AM
I'm breaking my self-imposed silence.I saw Moldy DT last night about 9:30 and he told me. I kept a stiff upper lip, but damn was it hard. It made the last few hours of work even more intollerable. If ever there was a need for positive thoughts and energy now is the time. IP: Logged |